Communication, Sex-Life—How these words are relevant to each other? Are they connected? What can you say if someone doesn’t know how to deal with the word “Sex”, too conservative to talk about sex? Or too close-minded to deal with sex? How will someone improve this so called sex-life if they’re not that confident to deal with it? We all know that sexual well-being goes with the holistic health for it improves the quality of mental, emotional, and physical aspects. This matter is very essential to couples.
Nowadays, many couple find it hard to deal with sex. Some people feel it’s difficult to start the dialogue leading to sex-life with the best of their abilities or too busy at work to deal in this circumstance. Relationship might be boring if sex-life will be set aside. This may cause trouble or sort of “coldness” between the couple. Having this kind of dilemma might put the relationship at risk.
Let’s see tips on how sexual life-improves through healthy conversation.
SETTING THE MOOD. Part of this is to put up some good ambiance between your partner for you to have the best moment together. Telling him/her how good the day is? Or what he/she is up to? How’s the day gone by? Did anyone make her feel bad? Or any random talks that would lighten up the mood.
RIGHT TIMING. Find the best time to talk. Late at night? Lying on bed or where else? This means wherever you are, accept the fact that sex-life would always be part of your life because you’re a couple. Sex-life doesn’t mean you always have to intercourse for the desire of having a child. That’s why you need to talk about it. Make love, not lust. Talk about what is the best thing about making love, what troubles/issues you encounter in the middle of love making.
BE OPEN & HONEST. Lack of communication may lead to doubts and over thinking. Never hesitate to ask your partner about making love though it’s critical that you also should consider the dilemma your partner is dealing with. Telling about your problem to your significant other will be a great help in solving it. If you lied about what you’re into, it will just make the situation worse. That’s why you need to go back to tip #2 Right Timing. Take time to listen and learn to understand things going on.
BE A MYSTERY BOX. I ask one of my colleagues about his married life and she said “Let your partner find you mysterious” then i asked, “in what sense being a mysterious to your partner is important?” She answered “You need to give your partner a surprise about yourself, even if he’s your husband you need to give him a peck of mystery about how far you will become a better partner to him.” Sometimes we need to find new styles or unique ways on how to deal with sex-life.
FIND SOMETHING NEW. Never forget to educate yourself. Learning something new about how far can you be the best partner to your wife or your husband will never be that easy. Find something new is one of the best ways on how you can improve yourself for a better relationship. Never let the lack of communication dim down the spark between you and your partner. Keep the fire burning and make the most out of it.
Look, listen and understand – these are the three primary factors that can greatly help in improving communication in any relationship and sex life overall.